There is no “way of escape” because there is no “temptation.”
So you want your wife to understand and (fantasy) maybe even join you. Sex Your line is “I’m a guy, aren’t you glad that I’m a man and like girls. She will try to get you to get “help” from “mindfulness” or “porn addiction” snake oil “experts” like Gary Wilson. And then drop it and return to telling her how sexy she is and maybe you need to drain your balls a little bit more with her since she is turning you on this way. But a few weeks/months later, you saw a link and… Her breasts sag like an tribal woman in National Geographic. Here’s what I did. Quinn, Medicine Woman and Sully make out, is she thinking – “Oh, I wish I could kiss that manly tomahawk-wielding hunter in buckskins with long wavy hair”. I recently got a hair cut and the hair falling in my lap was grey. Quinn and you are her Sully. You turn me on and I love having great sex with you. Be prepared. Quinn and you are her Sully. So this argument is going to go on for weeks and months. But a few weeks/months later, you saw a link and… Tell her that you will try to stop if that what she demands, but
